In our lives, people come and go, some will leave a mark and some don’t. One thing is for sure, and I have been holding on to this – everything, everyone happens for a reason. That’s a given. A fact in this world that I need to learn to accept. It’s a challenge when that person occupied a huge space in my heart and changed the way I see friendship.
Jenny. This name will forever be etched in the deepest corner of my mind and being. Her friendship is one of the greatest gifts I have ever received. I feel so lucky and blessed to have her in my life.
The day that cancer took over her body was the same day my world fell apart. When she passed away last July 16, I knew my life will never be the same again
She was more than a friend to me, Kaye and Michelle. Ate Jenny made us her sisters even before we started to be collectively called “Fab Four”.
We’re always there for each other in good and bad times. She’s the most compassionate being I have ever met. She offered her ears to listen to us, her shoulders to lean on, her hands when we felt like giving up, and her eyes to show her sincerity. Everything about her was just unbelievably good and pleasant that’s why we always loved being with her. Though we’re not connected by blood, the bond we have could be stronger than that of real siblings.
She was my mentor. She changed me for the better without me even knowing or her saying it. When I didn’t believe in myself, she did. She accepted me whether I succeeded or failed. Her beautiful soul radiates and reaches every single soul around her. I kind of imbibed her positivity. When everything seemed too difficult to face, her energy was very inspiring. It almost felt unreal, but I was so grateful to have been influenced by her loving personality.
She was a mother to me, too. I admired her for not missing my kids’ birthdays and mine ever since we became friends. She would fill the room with so much happiness. Her heart was enormous and generous to accommodate us. I must tell you, she welcomes literally everyone so warmly in her heart. My respect for her was like tantamount to my reverence to my parents. She became a part of our family. Her love was unconditional, we had her support come what may.
She was the best friend I ever had. I loved that she’s the kind of friend who would tell you the truth even if it’s painful. I will never forget those moments. She made them special because, no matter what, she pushed me to do my best, and she never gave up on me. She knew what makes me laugh or cry. It was almost contagious like music when we giggle together. Because she would also feel bad whenever I’m upset, she made sure that I’m smiling before the day ends. It doesn’t matter whether we’re together or apart, she would do anything.
I learned to appreciate even the smallest act of kindness. She taught me to treasure every single second of my life because that’s how I give its meaning and that’s how I will become myself. It was like she’s already preparing me from the very beginning when we agreed to seize our memories together in photos.
She loved taking pictures - lots and lots of pictures. As much as possible, we attend the same events to be able to spend more time together and share the activities we both love to do.
She would snap her camera here and there to record every experience we create. So, even if she’s not physically here anymore, she will never ever be forgotten.
I have developed that habit of taking pictures as well because of her. Anywhere I go, a mobile phone with a high-end camera could come handy. And when we’re talking about capturing incredible images that will keep every memory alive, Huawei P9 can change the way you see mobile photography.
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Huawei P9’s camera is co-engineered with Leica. It has dual lenses that produces high quality photos and allow users to take amazing monochrome, slo-mo, colored, light painting photos among others. It’s amazing how every single moment, emotion, action can be recorded clearly.
Moving on is harder than I thought but I will live by the good things she imparted to me. I know she’s in a better place where pain and sufferings are unknown. Now, I realized saying “She changed the way I see friendship” could be underrated. She changed me. She changed my life. I will forever miss you, Ate Jenny.
